If the idea of planning your funeral or a loved one’s makes you feel uneasy, you’re definitely not alone. That nervous feeling usually comes from a place of love and wanting to protect your family, even if the topic feels heavy. But here’s the gentle truth: funeral preplanning isn’t about expecting the worst, but rather finding peace of mind for you and your loved ones.
Since we tend to avoid talking about death in our culture, myths tend to pop up. Here are some misconceptions surrounding funeral preplanning, and the truths behind them.
Talking about it will make it happen: Truth - Facing your fears can make them less scary. Discussing funeral preplanning helps you take charge of your final wishes and keeps loved ones informed.
I’m too young or healthy to worry about this: Truth -You don’t have to reach the “right age” to preplan. Preplanning is for anyone who wants to make thoughtful choices ahead of time, no matter their age or health.
My family will handle it because they know what I’d want: Truth - Even the closest families can struggle with decisions during emotional times. Preplanning can ease that burden, removing the guesswork for those you leave behind.
It’s going to cost too much upfront: Truth - Preplanning doesn’t always mean paying upfront. It can actually help prevent unexpected costs later. Many find the process to be more flexible and affordable than expected.
I don’t know where to begin: Truth - You've already taken the first step just by reading this. That shows you’re ready to tackle it, and that’s a great start.
There's no right or wrong way to preplan a funeral. You have the freedom to make choices that feel good to you while you're here.
Whenever you’re ready, we’re here to help. If you want to learn more about advance funeral planning or start capturing your end-of-life wishes, please contact us at 215-348-4543. Or visit www.reedandsteinbach.com.
